Has your partner been saying ‘not tonight’ too often even after you have gone through the exercise of seduction, care and friendship? It can be difficult not to feel rejected by her actions, but that doesn’t mean that she has stopped loving you completely. So we list the emotional reasons why she may not be in the mood and what you can do about it.
1. You have body shamed her: Your partner may be upset with you over some experience or event. For example, if she has gained weight and you have criticized her, she may get a feeling that you no longer find her attractive. Ensure that you don’t body shame your partner. Make her feel loved, supported and happy always.Here's how your body image affects your sex life.
2. She is emotionally disturbed: Sometimes life’s challenges and stresses can put sex at the bottom of someone’s list of things to do. If she is disturbed emotionally, she will not have the urge to have sex. So ensure that you talk it out with her, share her problems, console her and try to cheer her up. You can control your emotions better with this simple trick.
3. You don’t prioritise emotional intimacy: For many, connection and emotional intimacy become imperative for them to feel turned on. When you are distant and disconnected or are fighting, there is no emotional connect. Don’t make your partner feel that you do not have time to talk but have the time to have sex.
4. She is not over the last fight: Your sex life can get affected if your relationship is going through hardship or there is building resentment. As a result, of all the fights, your partner may feel unloved not wanting to be physically connected to you. If you want to get the romance back in life, delete your partner from facebook.
5. She is attracted to someone else: Love may go stale with time, and it is possible that your partner is drifting from the relationship and looking for solace elsewhere. If your partner is in no mood to sizzle, it could be possible that you have jumped into the unfaithful waters. She will not want to have sex with you if she is attracted to someone else.
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